Many people, at a crossroad in their lives, find uplift and inspiration by opening a book at random and reading the words with which they’re immediately confronted. The most famous example was the epiphany of Augustine of Hippo, who was going through a period of great personal crisis in the summer of 386 AD, largely because his dissolute life style was causing his mother great distress. While wandering in a state of mental anguish he thought he heard the words of a young child repeatedly chanting the words tolle lege (Take up and read). Taking this as a divine command, he took a copy of St Paul’s Epistle to the Romans and opened it by chance at Chapter 13. Here he read what he took to be a direct command from the apostle, instructing him to give up his debauched way of life and ‘put on the Lord’. This led to his on-the-spot conversion. From then onwards he led an abstemious, celibate life, devoted wholly to the promulgation of the Christian faith.
Many years later Steven Covey, the well-known management consultant and self-help guru. had a similar climactic experience. This he relates in his best-selling book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, where he tells how he picked a book at random as he was wandering through a college library. ‘As I opened it, my eyes fell upon a paragraph that powerfully influenced the rest of my life. I read the paragraph over and over again. It basically contained the simple idea that there is a gap or a space between stimulus and response.’ Unlike Pavlov’s dogs we don’t salivate every time a bell is rung. We’re not automatons. We can always choose how we respond to changes in our environment. This Covey realised as he read those words. There is always a gap between the stimuli we receive and the response we make. This brought about a paradigm shift in his thinking, because while he had always accepted that we have powers of self-determination, he now realised that ‘the key to both our growth and happiness is how we use that space.’
To test the effectiveness of the Tolle Legge technique, and see if it worked as well for me as it did for Augustine and Covey, I picked up three books which I had within arm’s reach and opened them at random. Here’s what I discovered:-
So far these messages haven’t brought about a ‘road to Damascus’ experience, but they’re useful reminders nevertheless.
© Donald Norfolk 2010
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